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Month: April 2025

Embrace Solitude

Many feel uncomfortable with the idea of solitude. But, it is fundamental to any creative problem solving. ​


Why I Write My Goals Down

Write My Goals

Last evening, during a conversation, I got to share my personal and professional goals for the year with a young colleague. They are written down in my journal…..clear, specific, and intentional. He was surprised, especially by how explicitly I had Read more…


Conflict=Needs Colliding

Needs Colliding

Conflict is a regular part of workplace life. Different roles, different goals, competing priorities-it’s inevitable. But while conflicts often appear to be between people or teams, they usually run deeper. At their core, most workplace conflicts are really about opposing Read more…


Weekend Story-The Old Dog And The Nail

Old Dog

Every morning, a man walked past his neighbor’s house and saw a dog lying on the porch, whining softly. Days passed, but the scene remained the same. The dog kept whining. Curious, he finally asked the old man rocking beside Read more…


Overcome The Hard Moments !!

hard moments

“Perfection is impossible. In the 1526 singles matches I played in my career, I won almost 80% of those matches. Now, I have a question for you. What percentage of points do you think I won in those matches? Only Read more…


The Upside Of Losing Well

Losing Well

We’ve just wrapped up our financial year(It’s April to March). At the start of the year, my team and I set an ambitious goal—hairy, audacious, and intentionally bold. Now, as we review the outcomes, we’ve fallen short of that high Read more…


Interested Or Committed?

Interested or committed

Just got back from Da Nang having completed my second half marathon in three months. Not long ago, running a marathon was just a nice idea. I liked the thought of it, read about it, and talked about it. But Read more…


Measure What Matters

measure what matters

Being in a leadership role, I am constantly setting goals, chasing numbers, and tracking performance. But there’s a quiet trap hidden in all this—a principle called Goodhart’s Law: “When a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good Read more…


Be Present

Be Present

Someone wise said this to me recently. Life rarely shouts. It whispers. We think not knowing is what holds us back. But often, it’s not looking or not noticing that does the real damage. Presence matters. Slow down. Pay attention. Read more…