Own My Growth

Helping folks with practical tips to manage themselves better

Embrace Solitude

Many feel uncomfortable with the idea of solitude. But, it is fundamental to any creative problem solving. ​


Daily Interactions

Our daily interactions are a key indicator of future success—improving the quality of these connections drives better outcomes.


Weekend Story-The Priest And Three Questions

Priest and three questions

Once upon a time, a priest on a walking tour in pre-revolutionary Russia was confronted by a soldier as he entered the town. The soldier pointed his bayonet at the priest and called out,  The priest was unfazed. Instead of Read more…


Beware Of The Curse Of Knowledge

curse of knowledge

In 1990, Elizabeth Newton, a Ph.D. candidate at Stanford University, did a study to check how confident people were about communicating some message to someone and how successful they were in getting the message across to the recipient.  In the Read more…


Why Isn’t It Working?

Why isn't it working

When I was your age, I worked all day. I showed up everywhere. I travelled at short notice. I stayed late. I did whatever it took. So when I hand someone an opportunity today, a part of me expects the Read more…


Loosen Up

Loosen up

It’s been a tough week. Issues to deal with, pressure, deadlines, and expectations. In the midst of all this, I’ve been guilty of feeling stressed, of tightening up, and letting that tension leak into the room. As the week draws Read more…


Unplug And Restart

Unplug and Update

This evening, my laptop started misbehaving. Everything felt slow. Screens lagged. The system was heating up. Too many applications open, too much going on, and then it just hung. I did the only thing that ever really works in these Read more…


Persevere

Persevere

We often admire people who persevere against the odds. The ones who don’t give up when things get hard, and somehow go on to create meaningful outcomes. What we often miss is what creates that perseverance. Why do some people Read more…


Peace

Peace comes from not escaping life, but staying steady within it…..choosing what deserves your attention and letting the rest pass.


Weekend Story-The Unsent Message

An unsent message often carries more wisdom than a sent one—peace returns when we stop explaining, defending, and let the moment pass.


Watch Your Mood

What we carry inside leaks out…..into meetings, conversations, homes, teams. Like it or not, mood is contagious. I’ve seen days where nothing changed except my state, and suddenly everything moved easier. Not because the problem vanished, but because the energy Read more…


Meaning In Small Acts

small acts

An old friend reached out to me, looking for a break. Almost at the same time, another friend in a senior role asked if I knew someone suitable in that exact domain. I simply connected the two, and it worked Read more…


Quiet Cost Of Comfort

cost of comfort

I’ve come to believe that resilience is not something you decide to have. It is something life drills into you. When our life is comfortable for too long, our mind adapts to comfort. It loses its edge. Small problems feel Read more…


Do Less. Do It Better.

do less.do it better

During our annual operating plan discussions, I found myself saying something paradoxical. The fastest way to raise your level of performance is not to work harder. It is to cut your number of commitments in half. Every additional commitment comes Read more…