Own My Growth

Helping folks with practical tips to manage themselves better

Embrace Solitude

Many feel uncomfortable with the idea of solitude. But, it is fundamental to any creative problem solving. ​


Daily Interactions

Our daily interactions are a key indicator of future success—improving the quality of these connections drives better outcomes.


Weekend Story-The Priest And Three Questions

Priest and three questions

Once upon a time, a priest on a walking tour in pre-revolutionary Russia was confronted by a soldier as he entered the town. The soldier pointed his bayonet at the priest and called out,  The priest was unfazed. Instead of Read more…


Beware Of The Curse Of Knowledge

curse of knowledge

In 1990, Elizabeth Newton, a Ph.D. candidate at Stanford University, did a study to check how confident people were about communicating some message to someone and how successful they were in getting the message across to the recipient.  In the Read more…


The Right Way Is The Hard Way

The Right Way

These days, everyone is trying to make things faster and easier. I’m not sure that works when you’re trying to do something meaningful and original. The right way is often the hard way. No shortcuts. My son has been exploring Read more…


Weekend Story-The Vase Of Water

Vase of water

A philosopher asked his pupils to fill a vase until it overflowed. “Why does it spill?” “Because it is full,” they said. “No,” he replied. “It spills because it cannot hold more. Life is like this vase. Stuff it with Read more…


Don’t Chase The Outcome

Don't Chase the outcome

I was on a sales call recently with one of my teammates. Before we walked in, he said, “Since you’re coming, maybe we can try and close this.” I smiled and told him something I’ve learned the hard way: I Read more…


Focus Is An Awareness Problem

focus is an awareness problem

Focus is rarely a discipline problem; it is a clarity problem. When people are unclear, they stay busy but drift from what matters. The moment priorities become clear, focus follows. Perhaps the real issue is awareness, operating consciously instead of Read more…


The Promise

The promise

It’s 2 a.m. The world is quiet, and after a long day working on some important work matters, I’m still here writing. Not because I have to, but because I don’t want to break a promise I made to myself Read more…


The Things We Once Wanted

THings we once wanted

I was travelling to Jakarta this evening and overheard a teenage boy asking his father, “Can I also get a credit card when I grow up?” I am not sure what the context was, but it made me smile. In Read more…


Fix The Attitude

Fix the attitude

“I did what was asked; why is this my problem?”“The client says we’re too expensive. Can we just discount the product?”“I think the problem is with the other person.” You never outperform the way you think about the work.What you Read more…


Shrink The Frame

shrink the frame

When you feel stuck with a problem that feels out of control and has no immediate solution, it’s easy to pickle in it. To sit with it. Turn it over endlessly. Build stress quietly within yourself. That rarely helps. When Read more…


Weekend Story-Fear

Fear

A young warrior was told she would have to face fear and defeat it. She didn’t like the idea. Fear felt loud, aggressive, overwhelming. When the moment arrived, fear stood tall and imposing. She felt small in comparison. Instead of Read more…


Why Isn’t It Working?

Why isn't it working

When I was your age, I worked all day. I showed up everywhere. I travelled at short notice. I stayed late. I did whatever it took. So when I hand someone an opportunity today, a part of me expects the Read more…