July 3, 2026
Today was Day 2 of the ceremonies before my son’s wedding. The day of Haldi and Mangala Snanam. In a Vedic wedding, this is one of the rituals that prepares the groom for marriage. Turmeric is ground and applied by Read more…
July 2, 2026
Today was the first day of our five-day wedding celebrations. The house was full. The rituals had begun, and all my close family members were there. The day started early and moved with the usual mix of joy, movement, noise, Read more…
July 1, 2026
It’s the week leading up to my son’s wedding, and I am on a work break, fully engrossed in the preparations. My daily reflections are naturally leaning towards what I am noticing around me. In a wedding house, some of Read more…
June 30, 2026
I am in Hyderabad. My son’s wedding is days away, and the house is full. Lists everywhere. Rooms, food, transport, rituals, clothes, gifts, timings, elders. Every day something gets added. Every hour something shifts. We brought my parents from Bangalore; Read more…
June 29, 2026
A man was rowing across a river before sunrise. The water was quiet enough that every dip of the oar sounded larger than it was. Halfway across, through the thin morning mist, he saw another boat drifting towards him. At Read more…
June 26, 2026
We judge our choices by how they turn out. If it worked, we call it a good decision. If it did not, we beat ourselves up for getting it wrong. But that is the wrong way to keep score. Just Read more…
June 25, 2026
I have a friend who started out on my team. We spent years working closely, solving problems side by side, and somewhere along the way, the working relationship became more like family. He has gone on to build a remarkable Read more…
June 23, 2026
One bad day is fine. Everyone has them. The danger is what comes next. Skip the workout once, it’s a rest day. Skip it again, it’s a pattern. The excuse I used yesterday becomes easier to use today, and easier Read more…
June 20, 2026
Early in my career, when it came to taking decisions, I was a mess of uncertainty. Was I doing the right thing? What if I made a mistake? I would constantly keep seeking validation before I moved. Until a mentor Read more…
June 19, 2026
I had two separate conversations with two colleagues today and ended up saying the same thing to both. If the diagnosis is wrong, the treatment will be wrong too. We spend most of our energy on the treatment. What should Read more…
