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What Are You Willing To Give Up?

Whenever my younger son tells me about a new idea he is excited about, I ask him two questions. “Do you really want to be great at this?” And then the one that irritates him even more: “What are you Read more…


The Hero Cannot Scale

Hero cannot scale

Something I have learned the hard way while building a business. Getting to your first few clients and scaling into a real business are two completely different games. The first game rewards hustle. Individual brilliance. The ability to sit across Read more…


Quality Of Life

quality of life

We often say we want a great quality of life. When I was younger, I thought that meant comfort. A better home. Better holidays. Better conveniences. But with age and the benefit of hindsight, I see it differently. Quality of Read more…


The People Who Remember

people who remember

An acquaintance reached out today, almost out of the blue. It had been nearly a decade. He used to work in my previous organization. We were connected on LinkedIn, but have not really been in touch. Today, he referred a Read more…


Do Today Well

Do today well

One trap I keep falling into is measuring myself by outcomes. Did the deal close? Did the numbers move? Did the plan work? But every time I step back, I arrive at the same conclusion. By the time an outcome Read more…


A Few Things I Have Learned About Living Well

Living well

Tomorrow, my son and daughter-in-law travel back to the United States to begin their life together. As they leave, I find myself wondering whether there is one last thing worth sharing. Not advice. Just a few observations from someone who Read more…


The Stories We Add

stories we add

I did not get selected. It must be the way I answered the question about why I want to join the company. My colleague walked past without saying hello. He is clearly upset with me about something. The client has Read more…


Something I Told My Sons

Something I told my sons

These past two weeks, between wedding preparations, I got something rare. Extended, unhurried time with both my sons. Naturally, a couple of conversations wandered to work and career. And like a typical all-knowing parent, I made sure to tell them Read more…


Permission To Rest

REst

The wedding is done. The guests have gone home. Tomorrow I fly my parents back to Bangalore and return to a quiet house. And I am exhausted. Deeply, completely exhausted. My instinct, like always, is to get back into routine. Read more…


Energy Follows Meaning

energy

Today was Day 2 of the ceremonies before my son’s wedding. The day of Haldi and Mangala Snanam. In a Vedic wedding, this is one of the rituals that prepares the groom for marriage. Turmeric is ground and applied by Read more…