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The Pull Of A Problem

pull of a problem

It was a good day today. I spent it with a couple of clients, digging into problem areas in their businesses and thinking about how technology might help solve them. By the end of those conversations, I noticed something. I Read more…


Parachute Or Presentation?

parachute or presentation

A distinction worth carrying to work. A parachute that works 99% of the time is not a good parachute. It is a death trap. That one percent failure is the only number that matters. A presentation that is 99% polished Read more…


Ambition Vs Commitment

ambition vs commitment

Your commitment has to be in sync with your ambition. You want to be fit? Then you have to accept the discipline and the trade-offs that come with it. You want the title and the seniority at work? Then you Read more…


Do the Work. Don’t Grade It

don't grade

For years, I wanted to write. But I kept judging what I wrote before I had really begun. Is this good enough? Is it worth sharing? Will anyone care? The judgment became the reason I never started. That changed in Read more…


Look for the Ingredients

Ingredients

In technology selling, we think our job is to sell a product. It is not. The real job is to understand the client’s pain deeply enough to shape something that actually solves it. In that sense, a good salesperson is Read more…


Persistence And Variety

persistence

In B2B software sales, we like to believe the clever pitch or the killer demo wins deals. In my experience, they are won by two far less glamorous things: persistence and variety. Enterprise deals move slowly. A serious sale can Read more…


When Values And Actions Part Ways

values and acitons

My thirties were among the most successful years of my career. I was growing fast, climbing, achieving. And, paradoxically, they were also some of the unhappiest years of my life. For a long time, that made no sense to me. Read more…


An Expression, Not a Means

An Expression

I was listening to a spiritual master’s discourse this evening, and in the middle of an explanation, he said something that stopped me. Success should never be a means to happiness. Success should be an expression of happiness. Sometimes, one Read more…


Commitment

commitment

Commitment is a strange thing. Before we decide, everything feels hazy. What if we choose wrong? So, we keep our options open, protect an exit and wait for more clarity. But the moment we decide fully, our attention sharpens. We Read more…


The Weight Of Autonomy

autonomy

At work, many of us say we want autonomy, empowerment, and the space to make decisions. But the moment that space comes with real ownership, we hesitate. Now we have to choose. Prioritise. Say no. Take a call without waiting Read more…