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Month: December 2025

Intentions Alone Don’t Matter

Intentions

All of us carry good intentions. We know what we should do. We even feel good about having those intentions. But most days, they remain just that—intentions. One of mine is clear. I know I’m good at helping others. Listening. Read more…


Living On Your Own Terms

living-on-your-own-terms

We’re in the U.S. right now. Just the four of us—me, my wife, and our two kids. It’s been a long time since we’ve spent this much uninterrupted time together. No agendas. No rushing. Just being around each other.And I Read more…


Weekend Story-The Sales Pitch

sales pitch

Two salespeople met the same prospect in the same week. The first came prepared. He spoke confidently about timelines, pricing deadlines, and what the prospect would miss if a decision wasn’t made quickly. He shared comparisons, highlighted risks, and repeated Read more…


Not All Failures Are Equal

Not all failures are equal

Some failures are costly. They damage trust, waste money/capital, or set you back years. When the price of getting it wrong is high, slowing down is sensible. You think it through, plan carefully, and respect the consequences. Being cautious here Read more…


Sabr And Shukr

Sabr

Last evening in San Francisco, after a long day of driving around with my son, we got back home tired but content. Like most people, I did what one does in that in-between state—mindlessly scrolled through YouTube shorts. Then one Read more…


The Lessons Are Still Speaking

Lessons are speaking

2025 is drawing to a close, and it’s a good time to step back and reflect on something valuable I can take into the new year. There’s a comforting myth that learning belongs to the young. That once you’re on Read more…


Many Things Are Necessary. None Are Sufficient.

Necessary.Sufficient

Success rarely breaks because of one big, visible mistake. More often, it weakens because of one small thing we assumed would be fine. Hard work matters. But effort without direction wastes time. Similarly, the smartest strategy falls flat without consistent Read more…


You Don’t Need More Time

MOre time

We keep saying we need more time. As if one extra hour will suddenly bring order to the chaos. It won’t. It’s never that our days are short of time. They are short of clarity. We rush from meeting to Read more…


Weekend Story-Serve Yourself

serve yourself

Layla used to wait for her manager to notice she was overwhelmed. He rarely did, and she felt unseen, resentful. One day, exhausted, she stopped expecting rescue and instead created her own boundary: “I can take three projects, not seven. Read more…


Give Value First

Give value first

There are moments when all of us need help. We need someone else to move faster, decide differently, or do something that makes our job easier. Sales wants Product to ship a feature. Product wants sales to position better. Everyone Read more…