Many Destinations, Many Paths

Do not become fixated on overcoming that one roadblock like your life depends on it. There is no challenge that can ruin you (unless you are caught doing something fundamentally unethical or wrong!).

Paradoxically, in trying to overcome a challenge, you can sometimes end up crossing the bounds of ethical behavior, thinking it is justified.

There may not be a lot of ways to overcome a particular challenge. However, there is almost always more than one way to deal with an issue.

The most important thing is to know what you want and to be flexible about how to get there, confident that there will always be more than one way to get there.