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When Values And Actions Part Ways

values and acitons

My thirties were among the most successful years of my career. I was growing fast, climbing, achieving. And, paradoxically, they were also some of the unhappiest years of my life. For a long time, that made no sense to me. Read more…


An Expression, Not a Means

An Expression

I was listening to a spiritual master’s discourse this evening, and in the middle of an explanation, he said something that stopped me. Success should never be a means to happiness. Success should be an expression of happiness. Sometimes, one Read more…


Weekend Story-What She Said

what she said

A couple moved to a small town and began visiting the local library. The librarian was distant. She barely looked up, offered little help, and seemed annoyed whenever they asked for anything. One afternoon, the woman complained about the librarian Read more…


The Lesson Repeats

Lesson Repeats

You miss your forecast one quarter. You call it an aberration. You miss it again the next quarter. You blame the product. You miss it a third time, and something stirs. Is there something I am not seeing? For the Read more…


Commitment

commitment

Commitment is a strange thing. Before we decide, everything feels hazy. What if we choose wrong? So, we keep our options open, protect an exit and wait for more clarity. But the moment we decide fully, our attention sharpens. We Read more…


The Weight Of Autonomy

autonomy

At work, many of us say we want autonomy, empowerment, and the space to make decisions. But the moment that space comes with real ownership, we hesitate. Now we have to choose. Prioritise. Say no. Take a call without waiting Read more…


Accepting What Is

Acceptance What is

In many team discussions, the argument quickly becomes about who is right. Sales blames delivery. Delivery blames product. Product blames the brief. Everyone has a point. Everyone also has a blind spot. Usually, there is one reality and several interpretations Read more…


The Biggest Prison Has No Walls

The Biggest Prison

Before hitting the bed, you set the alarm for 6 a.m. No one forced you. But you have decided on your own to start a morning routine. The alarm rings. Immediately, a negotiation begins. “You slept late.” “One more hour Read more…


Weekend Story- Becoming

Becoming

A caterpillar sat at the edge of a leaf, watching a butterfly drift across the garden. “How does one become like you?” she called out. The butterfly settled gently beside her. “You must want to fly so much,” it said, Read more…


The Real Work

Real Work

A vacation. A new job. More recognition. A different routine. We keep hoping one of these will fix what feels unsettled within. Sometimes these things help. But rarely for long. The real work is quieter and harder. Learning to understand Read more…