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Weekend Story-Saved For Later

Hiker resting on ground next to mule carrying water bottles on mountain trail

A trader was crossing a long stretch of desert with three bottles of water tied to his mule. By noon, the sun had become fierce. His throat burned, his lips cracked, and every step felt heavier than the last. He Read more…


Choose Different

choose different

An uncomfortable question worth sitting with. Can your current choices carry you to where you want to go? Not will they. Can they. Because in many cases, the outcome you want will keep eluding you even if you try harder. Read more…


Don’t Look For Validation

validation

There’s a pattern I keep seeing. Someone shares an update. The numbers aren’t great. The situation isn’t clear. But somehow the conclusion is always the same. It’ll work out. That’s not optimism. That’s confirmation bias. We don’t look at facts Read more…


If You Were Ready, It Wouldn’t Be Growth

if you were ready

There will never be a perfect time to do something that stretches you. Not when you are starting something new. Not when you are being asked to think bigger than you are used to. Not when the ask feels larger Read more…


Fear In Disguise

fear in disguise

Our excuses are rarely what they appear to be. I know this because I made plenty of them in my younger days. Not enough time. Not enough support. Not the right connections. Not enough knowledge. Each one felt completely legitimate Read more…


Different Windows

different window

Something I keep reinforcing with my sons. We spend a surprising amount of energy managing how other people see us. Adjusting what we say. Second-guessing our decisions. Softening our choices to fit what we think others expect. And when the Read more…


Seriously Vs Personally

Personally

Taking things seriously without taking them personally. Most of us don’t make that distinction. The moment criticism lands, we treat it as an attack. We defend ourselves, construct counter arguments, replay the conversation in our heads, and lose sleep over Read more…


Weekend Parable-Ten Rupees

Ten rupees

Meera pressed a ten-rupee note into the shopkeeper’s hand. “Your cashier returned too much yesterday. This is not mine.” Suresh stared at this widow in her white saree. “Keep it, madam. It’s nothing.” “What is not mine honorably, I cannot Read more…


Check The Mirror First

check the mirror

When things aren’t working with others, we rarely look at ourselves first. A colleague is difficult. A client is unresponsive. A conversation keeps going nowhere. The instinct is to diagnose the other person. Their attitude, their priorities, their problem. But Read more…


The Hard Work of Empathy

hardwork of empathy

Most of us think we are more empathetic than we actually are. We nod at the right moments. We say the right things. We treat empathy as something that naturally shows up when we need it. A side effect of Read more…