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Month: January 2026

Meaning In Small Acts

small acts

An old friend reached out to me, looking for a break. Almost at the same time, another friend in a senior role asked if I knew someone suitable in that exact domain. I simply connected the two, and it worked Read more…


Quiet Cost Of Comfort

cost of comfort

I’ve come to believe that resilience is not something you decide to have. It is something life drills into you. When our life is comfortable for too long, our mind adapts to comfort. It loses its edge. Small problems feel Read more…


Do Less. Do It Better.

do less.do it better

During our annual operating plan discussions, I found myself saying something paradoxical. The fastest way to raise your level of performance is not to work harder. It is to cut your number of commitments in half. Every additional commitment comes Read more…


Opportunities Or Distractions?

opportunities

Participating in networking events when your product is not ready. Pitching to a faraway market when you are still small in your core one. Exploring partnerships before you have mastered the art of selling. Starting a new product instead of Read more…


Aiming High Or Aiming Low

aiming high

An interesting paradox: an optimist who fails in ambition versus a pessimist who succeeds in pessimism. Failure in the pursuit of ambition doesn’t bother me much. It usually means I tried something that mattered. I aimed higher than I could Read more…


Weekend Story-The Tea That Was Too Hot

Hot Tea

A guest complained, “This tea is too hot.” The host said, “Then wait.” After a while, the guest smiled. “Perfect now.” The host nodded. “Many problems solve themselves the same way.”


A Few Good Friends

A few good friends

Last night, after everyone left, our house felt strangely quiet. The kind of quiet that comes only after good company. Laughter still hanging in the air. Half-finished conversations still floating around in your head. I sat for a while, replaying Read more…


What Not To Do

What not to do

Something I found myself telling a senior colleague last evening, when we were discussing the familiar problem of too many priorities pulling us in too many directions. Focus is the art of knowing what to ignore. We often think focus Read more…


Ghost Notes

GHost notes

I heard this idea in a podcast: musicians talk about something called ghost notes. In music, ghost notes are notes that are played very softly or lightly — so softly that you almost don’t hear them as distinct notes. They Read more…


What Matters More These Days

what matters more these days

Some days I catch myself doing this quiet audit of my life. Not in terms of titles, milestones, or how it looks from the outside. But in a much simpler way. Am I actually okay with the life I’m living? Read more…