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Month: December 2024

Think “First Class”

think first class

I become very triggered whenever anyone around me thinks negatively about an issue, blames external factors, or adopts a victim mentality. I feel that their way of thinking and mindset is flawed, and I can’t help but try to change Read more…


Three Pillars Of Trust

Three Pillars Of Trust

In the HBR May-June 2020 edition, Frances X. Frei and Anne Morriss wrote “Begin With Trust,” an article that explores how to build trust effectively. They share compelling stories and insights, highlighting three core drivers/ pillars of trust: authenticity, logic, Read more…


Great Conversations

Great conversations

I’ve sat through countless sales calls with young colleagues—and sometimes with senior colleagues, too—where they rush into pitching product features, hoping to establish credibility. But instead of connecting, they overwhelm. The impact they’re chasing doesn’t happen. Over the years, I’ve Read more…


Your Calendar Does Not Lie

Your Calendar

A simple but hard hitting message via Farnam Street Blogpost Your calendar is the most honest autobiography you’ll ever write. It doesn’t matter what you say your priorities are; your calendar reveals the truth. Each block is a decision about what Read more…


Weekend Story- The Wise Socrates

Wise socrates

The Oracle Of Delphi once declared, “None is wiser than Socrates in the whole of Athens.” Perplexed, Socrates engaged with poets, politicians, and artisans to figure out the meaning of the Oracle’s enigmatic proclamation. At first, everyone seemed very knowledgeable, Read more…


Raise The Bar

Raise the bar

If you do what everyone does, you will get the same results that everyone else gets. If you want better results, there is only one way-  raise your bar. You will never be exceptional at anything unless you raise your Read more…


What Are You Practicing?

Practicing

I was in a lengthy conversation with a colleague this afternoon about the need to practice the skill of selling- a craft that can only be mastered by stepping into the arena and actively engaging with the process.   The idea Read more…


Show Up Consistently

show up consistently

Most goals take time to achieve, and the longer the journey, the less it’s about intensity and the more it’s about showing up consistently. Consistency isn’t about relying on fleeting bursts of willpower—it’s about staying committed, even when you’re not Read more…


Prioritize Action Over Intelligence

Prioritize action

Life rewards action, not intelligence. We often put intelligence on a pedestal, thinking it’s the key to success. But the truth is that smart people are usually the best at making excuses. They can talk themselves out of anything, convincing Read more…


Your Success Is In Your Systems

success in systems

If you do something every day, it’s a system. If you’re waiting to achieve it someday, it’s a goal. If you had a choice, focus on building systems instead of chasing goals. This system-versus-goals framework applies to nearly every area Read more…