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The 3 Lens Principle-A Decision-Making Heuristic

3 Lens Principle

Whenever I get excited about a new idea, I’ve learned to be a little suspicious of that excitement. Not long ago, I was considering launching a new initiative in a promising market. The numbers looked good. The conversations were encouraging. Read more…


Weekend Story-Drop Your Labels

drop your labels

“Master, please accept me as your disciple,” pleaded the seeker. “Tell me who you are,” the Master asked. “Ramachandra Rao.” “That’s your name. Drop it and tell me who you are,” the Master asked again. “I am a businessman.” “That’s Read more…


Two Questions

Two questions

As we grow older, two questions slowly replace all the others. The first is: What do I want from life? But over time, a quieter question becomes more important: What does life want from me? The first question is about Read more…


Motion Vs Action

Motion

The difference between motion and action shows up everywhere. Motion: Action: Motion creates the illusion of productivity. Action is productivity. Many of us stay in motion longer than we should. It is comfortable. There is no risk. Action demands emotional Read more…


Weekend Story: A Life Postponed

Life Postponed

There was once a young nobleman named Julian who lived a life of endless “tomorrow.” He was wealthy, healthy, and he spent his days in idle distraction. He put off his true passions, writing, helping his community, and mending a Read more…


Assume Positive Intent Always

Assume positive intent

What I’ve increasingly noticed in cross-functional work is this: problems rarely begin with the issue itself. They begin with the story people are already carrying about the other side. This team is always difficult. That person always blocks. These people Read more…


Don’t Optimize For The Wrong Outcome

don't optimize for the wrong outcome

The real goal is not to “complete the task.” The goal is to move something forward meaningfully. The real goal is not to “attend the meeting.” The goal is to contribute or decide if it deserves your time. The real Read more…


After The Damage Is Done

After the damage

There’s something my wife does in moments of crisis that I’ve come to respect deeply. Not before the mistake. Not during the build-up. But after it has already happened. A small accident. A poor decision leading to big consequences. Money Read more…


Weekend Story-The Missed Train

Missed train

He was late by two minutes. The 8.30 am train left on time, and he stood on the platform replaying every small mistake, kicking himself for the delay. When the next train arrived, it was crowded and late. He travelled Read more…


The Person You Are Becoming

A man once asked a wise teacher, “How do I know if I am moving in the right direction in life?” The teacher replied, “Look at the person you are becoming while you are pursuing it.” Many goals promise success, Read more…