Helping folks with practical tips to manage themselves better
February 22, 2026
When our kids were growing up, people often asked my wife a question that never really went away. Why are you pushing them to learn Indian classical music?Why spend every summer going back to India, asking them to spend their Read more…
February 21, 2026
Don’t dig the well when you are thirsty. It’s something I often tell my kids when we speak about relationships and networking. Most people reach out only when they need something: a job, an introduction, a favour. By then, it Read more…
February 20, 2026
Something I’ve realised after chasing enough goals is this: everything takes longer and is harder than you think. I plan the actions, the milestones, even the outcomes. What I rarely plan for is patience when things don’t go as expected. Read more…
February 19, 2026
For anyone with kids, this will feel familiar. The one creating the ruckus gets all the attention, while the quiet one is left alone because everything seems fine. Workplaces are no different. Problems scream for attention while successes operate in Read more…
February 18, 2026
This focus on the self is the real source of fear. The more the ego tries to protect its image, the heavier fear feels. Fear feeds on self-importance, not reality. So the shift is not positive thinking. It is a Read more…
February 17, 2026
These days, everyone is trying to make things faster and easier. I’m not sure that works when you’re trying to do something meaningful and original. The right way is often the hard way. No shortcuts. My son has been exploring Read more…
February 16, 2026
A philosopher asked his pupils to fill a vase until it overflowed. “Why does it spill?” “Because it is full,” they said. “No,” he replied. “It spills because it cannot hold more. Life is like this vase. Stuff it with Read more…
February 15, 2026
I was on a sales call recently with one of my teammates. Before we walked in, he said, “Since you’re coming, maybe we can try and close this.” I smiled and told him something I’ve learned the hard way: I Read more…
February 14, 2026
Focus is rarely a discipline problem; it is a clarity problem. When people are unclear, they stay busy but drift from what matters. The moment priorities become clear, focus follows. Perhaps the real issue is awareness, operating consciously instead of Read more…
February 13, 2026
It’s 2 a.m. The world is quiet, and after a long day working on some important work matters, I’m still here writing. Not because I have to, but because I don’t want to break a promise I made to myself Read more…
