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New Year Manifesto-25 Rules Of Life

2026

It’s a ritual that started in the year of Covid. I created a manifesto of important values that I use as a GPS to guide me in leading my best life. Every year, one new value gets added to the Read more…


Not All Failures Are Equal

Not all failures are equal

Some failures are costly. They damage trust, waste money/capital, or set you back years. When the price of getting it wrong is high, slowing down is sensible. You think it through, plan carefully, and respect the consequences. Being cautious here Read more…


The Lessons Are Still Speaking

Lessons are speaking

2025 is drawing to a close, and it’s a good time to step back and reflect on something valuable I can take into the new year. There’s a comforting myth that learning belongs to the young. That once you’re on Read more…


Many Things Are Necessary. None Are Sufficient.

Necessary.Sufficient

Success rarely breaks because of one big, visible mistake. More often, it weakens because of one small thing we assumed would be fine. Hard work matters. But effort without direction wastes time. Similarly, the smartest strategy falls flat without consistent Read more…


You Don’t Need More Time

MOre time

We keep saying we need more time. As if one extra hour will suddenly bring order to the chaos. It won’t. It’s never that our days are short of time. They are short of clarity. We rush from meeting to Read more…


Give Value First

Give value first

There are moments when all of us need help. We need someone else to move faster, decide differently, or do something that makes our job easier. Sales wants Product to ship a feature. Product wants sales to position better. Everyone Read more…


The “Real” Problem

Real Problem

We call many things “problems” that are not really the problem. Revenue is flat. A project is delayed. A key hire quits. These are outcomes. Symptoms. The real problem usually sits one or two layers below what we first see. Read more…


Make Space For Peace

Space for peace

I came across this brilliant quote by Christine Evangelou, a well-known motivational writer and poet: “A crowded mind leaves no space for a peaceful heart.” This is so true in our everyday life. Most of our stress doesn’t come from Read more…


Weekend Story-The Monk’s Bowl

Monk's Bowl

He looked like any wandering monk: barefoot, quiet, carrying only a staff, a cloth bag, and a simple wooden bowl. He travelled from village to village asking for food, and in return, he offered a single clear truth about life. Read more…


That Small Shift

That Small shift

Hurry kills presence.Worry kills peace.Doubt kills faith.Ego kills love. Now read that right to left. Presence kills hurry.Peace kills worry.Faith kills doubt.Love kills ego. Most days, I live somewhere between these two paragraphs. One version of me races, overthinks, questions Read more…