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Month: August 2025

Work Smarter?

work smarter

Often, I advise my younger colleagues to work smarter when I feel they’re missing obvious ways to be more efficient. But reflecting on those conversations, I realize I might be wrong. Whenever I say work smarter, I’m speaking from a Read more…


Care Deeply

Care Deeply

The person who cares the most always does better than the one who’s just clocking in. When your effort comes with care, there is persistence, creativity, and resilience. It’s what makes you chase the last detail, push through obstacles, and Read more…


Leader’s Dilemma- Step In Or Step Back?

Leader's dilemma

Every leader faces the same trap: knowing when to intervene and when to step back. Teams are smart. They know that if they escalate even small issues, many leaders will jump in to solve them. It’s easier to pass the Read more…


Before The Chores

Before the Chores

Each workday comes with chores. Reply to emails. Update trackers. Sit in routine meetings. Review documents. I’m sure you have your own set of never-ending mundane tasks. If you’re good at the chores, you’ll be handed more of them. And Read more…


Weekend Story-The Man In Chains

A prisoner told Epictetus, “I am not free.”Epictetus asked, “Who stops you from choosing your thoughts?”


Weekend Musing- Moving Vs Improving

Moving

Curiosity is not about asking random questions. It is about staying open to the possibility that there’s more to see, more to know, more to understand. Learning takes us from one skill to another, one insight to another, one version Read more…


The Value Of Storming

Storming

Every team starts with excitement. People meet, exchange pleasantries, align on the goal — that’s the forming stage. Energy is high, optimism is abundant, and everyone is still polite. Then reality sets in as individuals try to balance personal ambitions Read more…


The Silence Problem

silence problem

Napoleon once said, “Ten people who yell make more noise than ten thousand who keep silent.” This phenomenon is evident in most workplaces. The confident few dominate the conversation, not always because they have the best ideas, but because they Read more…


Action Relieves Anxiety

Action relieves anxiety

This evening, one of my teammates updated me on some challenges my team was facing in a client implementation—serious enough to potentially damage a relationship we’ve built on trust. The news unsettled me. My mind started racing, mapping out worst-case Read more…


Make Mistakes Cheap, Not Rare

Sharing this nugget of wisdom via Farnam Street Blogpost People think good decision-making is about being right all the time. It’s not. It’s about lowering the cost of being wrong and changing your mind. When the cost of mistakes is Read more…