May 29, 2026
There will never be a perfect time to do something that stretches you. Not when you are starting something new. Not when you are being asked to think bigger than you are used to. Not when the ask feels larger Read more…
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May 29, 2026
There will never be a perfect time to do something that stretches you. Not when you are starting something new. Not when you are being asked to think bigger than you are used to. Not when the ask feels larger Read more…
May 27, 2026
Something I keep reinforcing with my sons. We spend a surprising amount of energy managing how other people see us. Adjusting what we say. Second-guessing our decisions. Softening our choices to fit what we think others expect. And when the Read more…
May 26, 2026
Taking things seriously without taking them personally. Most of us don’t make that distinction. The moment criticism lands, we treat it as an attack. We defend ourselves, construct counter arguments, replay the conversation in our heads, and lose sleep over Read more…
May 24, 2026
When things aren’t working with others, we rarely look at ourselves first. A colleague is difficult. A client is unresponsive. A conversation keeps going nowhere. The instinct is to diagnose the other person. Their attitude, their priorities, their problem. But Read more…
May 21, 2026
“This is complex. I’ll need at least two weeks.” We’ve all said it. We’ve all heard it. And in most cases, if you’re being honest, the task didn’t take two weeks. It took two days. The other twelve were spent Read more…
May 17, 2026
Riya wanted a “big day” to change her life. One perfect workout that would get her fit. One brilliant idea that would change her career. One bold conversation that would fix a broken relationship. Every time life looked the same Read more…
May 16, 2026
Big goals do that to you. They sit in your head and feel impossible. The expectation feels unrealistic. The risk of failure feels very real. And somewhere in the background, a quiet voice asks whether you even want to take Read more…
May 15, 2026
A doctor doesn’t run every test available. They know which ones matter. That distinction, knowing what matters most, is more important than most people realise. In today’s workplace, as knowledge workers are swimming in information. Data, reports, emails, meetings, opinions. Read more…
May 14, 2026
I was chatting with my niece this evening. She recently made the leap from employment to working for herself and is visibly happier, more energised, and more in control of her life. When I asked her why, the answer was Read more…
May 13, 2026
Attention is the oxygen that keeps any agenda alive. Good and bad. Give your attention to a goal and watch it grow. You think about it, work on it, move towards it. Your focus becomes its fuel. But the same Read more…