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Month: December 2025

Weekend Story-The Monk’s Bowl

Monk's Bowl

He looked like any wandering monk: barefoot, quiet, carrying only a staff, a cloth bag, and a simple wooden bowl. He travelled from village to village asking for food, and in return, he offered a single clear truth about life. Read more…


That Small Shift

That Small shift

Hurry kills presence.Worry kills peace.Doubt kills faith.Ego kills love. Now read that right to left. Presence kills hurry.Peace kills worry.Faith kills doubt.Love kills ego. Most days, I live somewhere between these two paragraphs. One version of me races, overthinks, questions Read more…


Meditation-Noticing Is The Practice

Noticing is the practice

Many people I know think meditation means “sit still and empty your mind.” And they don’t like it. I share with them a different frame: meditation is just switching off autopilot for micro-moments. You’re already breathing, walking, eating, scrolling. Meditation Read more…


Maybe I Don’t

Maybe I don't

The fastest way to block your own growth is to assume you already know. I see this often in experienced people—and in myself. Experience is useful, but it can also turn into a stubborn filter that edits out anything new. Read more…


The Price of What We Want

Price of what we want

When I look back at the year, two goals stand out. One: I wanted to run half-marathons. I woke up early, trained consistently, fixed my diet, and I got there. Two: I said I wanted to learn Bahasa. But I Read more…


Evening In Jakarta

evening in jakarta

I’m in Jakarta right now, and dinner ran long in the best possible way. I spent the evening with our Perfios team here — unhurried conversations, honest stories, lots of ideas. We spoke about ambition, purpose, careers, and what it Read more…


Action First, Clarity Next

Something I’ve realised over the last few years of being in a fast-moving fintech and operating like an entrepreneur: if you haven’t started, the smartest thing you can do is simply take action. Don’t get stuck planning something you haven’t Read more…


Weekend Story-Clarity Over Rank

clarity over heirarchy

The meeting had already stretched past an hour. The senior managers were deep in a debate about pricing models—tables, projections, jargon flying across the room. Everyone looked tense. Everyone sounded confident. And yet, nothing felt clear. Niko, the youngest analyst Read more…