Helping folks with practical tips to manage themselves better
July 11, 2023
One of the pitfalls of our thinking is that our expectations are consistently extroverted. We place demands on our parents, siblings, family, children, boss, organization, colleagues, and even the government, expecting them to fulfill our desires. Regrettably, this pattern of Read more…
July 10, 2023
Once, a person went to Gautama Buddha to seek advice on controlling his emotions. The person was struggling with anger and frustration and was looking for a better way to manage his feelings. Smiling, the Buddha asked him to sit down Read more…
July 9, 2023
Those closest to me, including my family and teammates, can affirm my OCD when it comes to the language they use to express themselves. Often, they accuse me of hastily judging them based on their words, even when their intention Read more…
July 8, 2023
The best response is often, “You might be right.” The next time someone disagrees with you or criticizes you, just shrug your shoulders and say, ‘you might be right,’ and watch the energy change. If you care about the outcome, Read more…
July 7, 2023
My wife and I have a love for both Indian and Italian cuisine. A few years ago, we stumbled upon an Italian restaurant in the heart of Kuala Lumpur that left a lasting impression. The atmosphere and food were exceptional, Read more…
July 6, 2023
Changing people’s operating habits and behaviors- we can also refer to it as the culture of any organization- is always challenging and takes time. Sometimes organizations and leaders fall into the trap of trying to enforce change by rolling out Read more…
July 5, 2023
We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change. Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend As knowledge workers, we are Read more…
July 4, 2023
You have a project on your hands if it involves a goal with timelines, constraints, dependencies, risks, and the need for resources. So treat it like a project to manage if you want to achieve a goal or objective, like Read more…
July 3, 2023
Once, a king wanted to test the honesty of his subjects, so he devised a clever plan. He commissioned a team of workers to create a large metallic barrel and had it placed at the town square. The king then Read more…
July 2, 2023
Are you currently facing challenges in achieving some goals? If you find yourself struggling to make progress on your goals, there may be an underlying reason behind it. It could be that your goals are what a 2106 motivational Research calls, ‘Have-to” Read more…
